On day three of the International Eucharistic Congress, the catechesis was delivered by Archbishop Barry James Hickey, Emeritus Archbishop for Perth in Western Australia. Below you can find the full copy of his text.
Catechesis on the Eucharist and the Christian Family
by Archbishop Barry James Hickey
Emeritus Archbishop of Perth, Western Australia
12 June 2012
I deem it an honour to have been asked to address you during this Eucharistic Congress. I honestly have no idea how the organizers of the Congress had ever heard of me as I am an obscure Archbishop who comes from the relatively obscure Archdiocese of Perth in Western Australia.
Nevertheless, in the strange ways of Providence, I received a letter from Archbishop Diarmuid Martin, whom I did not know personally, inviting me to speak at the Congress. In truth, I welcome the invitation with joy for a number of reasons.
One reason is that I had already decided to attend this Congress, as I had been to others. I have always had a great love of the Eucharist and for celebrations of faith like this that seem to bring the Eucharist more deeply into our daily lives.
From the earliest times spiritual writers have spoken of the wonderful gift of the Eucharist. We are indebted to the theologians for deepening our knowledge of the Eucharist in its biblical, philosophical and eschatological dimensions.
For most of us the Eucharist is the abiding presence of the Risen Lord among us, still with his wounds, to tell us that he understands us, our lives, our pain and our joys.
There are many fruits of Eucharistic adoration and Holy Communion, but one that is not often listed is the one that I cherish most. It is the gift of peace. That is the gift I invariably take away with me – the peace that comes from knowing that Jesus is with you, no matter what happens.
Perhaps this is the fulfilment of the promise made in Isaiah Chapter 54 about the covenant of peace. For me, Jesus in the Blessed Eucharist is that Covenant of Peace.
Another reason is the topic I was asked to talk about – the link between God’s Divine Communion with his people and the covenant communion of marriage and family life.
Thirdly in these days when the Catholic Church is under attack, partly because of the sins of some of its leaders, but mainly because of its uncompromising teachings, I wanted to affirm the importance of Christian marriage today and the futility of modern alternatives to marriage.
Another reason for my joy is that preparing this talk has immersed me once again in the beauty of our Catholic faith. I reflected again on the awesome communion with God that we experience through the Risen Lord and the Holy Spirit, when we are taken up into the life of the Blessed Trinity.
It has caused me to reflect again on the beauty of Christian Marriage, and on how absolutely necessary it is for us to proclaim to the world the gift that Christian Marriage is. I saw an opportunity to say in this very public forum that Christian marriage is now under fierce and hostile attack, and that we cannot let that deter us from affirming the great vision of Jesus and St Paul to a world desperately in need of it. The gift we give to a world of broken relationships and unloved children is the beauty of Christian marriage and our desire to reach out to the victims of broken marriages. Jesus has entrusted to us this pearl of great price. We must care for it as it is a rare treasure.
So I am here at last. I am part of a pilgrimage from Perth. Our pilgrims are here too. I must make it clear that I am no longer the Archbishop of Perth. I was when I was invited to speak, but since then my resignation has been accepted because of age, I am now the Emeritus Archbishop of Perth. The new Archbishop is Timothy Costelloe, whose family came from Ireland more than a century ago. They hail from the town of Costelloe in County Mayo.
In fact the new Archbishop brings his coffee cup to morning tea emblazoned “I am a mug from Costelloe.”
The Biblical Vision of Marriage
Let us start this talk on a very high plane with the words of St Paul in Ephesians, Chapter 5. St Paul speaks of a “deep secret” now revealed that the loving union of husband and wife is so unique that it is to be an image of the union between Christ and His church, based on love.
This was and is a very disturbing statement. Marriage in St Paul’s time was not always based on love. In both Jewish practice and the ways of the Roman Empire, marriage was based more on perpetuating family ties or inheritance or property or status rather than on love.
St Paul had absorbed Jesus’ own teaching on the permanence of marriage as the original intention of the Creator, by reflecting theologically on the importance of love and self-giving in Christian Marriage.
Communion of Love
What is this “Communion of Love”? Basically it says that the love of God is such that God draws us, through our Baptism and the power of the Holy Spirit, into a deep communion with himself.
It is saying that the very essence of God is to be a communion of love with Father, Son and Holy Spirit, and that this love reaches out to us because Jesus has rescued us from the power of evil and death and has brought us back to the Father.
St Paul helps us here. St Paul, who spoke Greek very well, having been raised in the Greek city of Tarsus – which is not in Greece of course, but in what we now know as Turkey – used the word KOINONIA frequently. It means “communion”. He uses it to describe the “horizontal” union among the believing and baptised people, that is, the Church, and our “vertical” union with the Trinity. This is mind blowing! Although this is probably not easy to talk about in the local bar or pub, it is nevertheless true. Let us call it “mystical”.
Science sometimes purports to have all the answers, but it can’t get very far with the mystical. We know we are more than flesh and blood. We know there is a part of us that reaches out beyond ourselves. It is the world of love, of faith, of being part of something greater than ourselves. It is an echo of the divine within us. It needs to be expressed in some way. We are ready to accept as valid the mystical experiences we have that science cannot put under a microscope. Our union, or better, our communion with God is such an experience. We discover it in moments of silence, in contemplation, and in a very real sense, in adoration of Jesus in the Blessed Sacrament.
We have often been reminded of the dangers of the New Age, and rightly so. New Age practices give rituals, gemstones, crystals and the rest, powers that properly belong to God. However let us not reject the mystical search that lies behind the New Age. We too are drawn by the power of the mystical path to plumb the depths of God’s love of us. Perhaps our own embrace of our mystical selves can be a tool of evangelizing those whose mystical search stops short of God.
The Eucharist and Christian Marriage
Let us bring all this into the heart of this Eucharistic Congress to reflect on the relationship between Marriage and the Eucharist. I will try to impart what our most recent popes have said on the subject, the late Pope John Paul II and our present Pope Benedict XVI. I say “impart” because their thoughts are very profound and are the fruit of years of theological and academic reflection.
Pope John Paul II wrote in “Familiaris Consortio” in 1981 “that God in himself lives a mystery of personal loving communion”. He goes on to say that if we are created in the image of God, we also have the capacity and the obligation of love and communion. To love, therefore, becomes the vocation of every human person, and in marriage especially, involving as it does, the human body as well as the human spirit.
Thus he sanctifies the intimate love and embrace of husband and wife in marriage as they give themselves totally to each other. This is the image of God’s love for us, as St Paul taught.
The Holy Father points to the role of the Eucharist in the life of the family. Not only does the Eucharist nourish marriage and family life and deepen its union with Christ, it also includes the aspect of sacrifice, which is central to our understanding of the Eucharist. The Eucharist is a re-presentation of Christ’s sacrifice of love for the Church, and was sealed with his blood on the cross. The Eucharist is the source of strength for couples who know without exception that committed love requires a spirit of self-sacrifice, freely and joyfully given.
The knowledge that Jesus’ love for us involved the ultimate price empowers and motivates couples to fully commit themselves to their vocation as spouses and parents, no matter what the cost.
We turn to the exhortation of Pope Benedict XVI called “Sacramentum Caritatis” or the Sacrament of Love, meaning of course, the Blessed Eucharist. It could also mean the Sacrament of Matrimony, which is also a Sacrament of Love.
The Holy Father argues thus – If the Eucharist is the abiding sign of the covenantal love between God and the Church, that love is indissoluble - it will never be broken. It cannot be broken because God is always faithful to his promises.
Christian marriage must therefore be indissoluble if the love of God for his church is to be compared to it. “What God has joined together let no one put asunder: (Mk 10:9)
The Eucharist, symbol of God’s unfailing love, is also the symbol of the unfailing love of Christian marriage. It also provides the strength and the grace to nourish the marriage.
The Holy Father goes on to say that the force of this teaching reveals its “radical newness”. It reveals how different Christian marriage really is compared to the diversity of human relationships we see around us. It is new in its permanence and in the quality of the union between husband and wife. We are speaking of God’s original plan which was modified by Moses, as Jesus said, because of their hardness of heart. Jesus restored the marriage bond as it was meant to be.
The hardness of the human heart has not changed much. Marriage continues to fail because of it. Sin enters and causes huge damage.
Nevertheless we must call people to a higher vision despite human weakness, and point to the Blessed Eucharist as the source of strength and grace, and the very presence of the healing Lord within the life of the family.
The pastoral problems facing the Church and its pastors when marriages break up are very real, says the Holy Father. At the same time the pastors must offer guidance that respects the truth, and urge people in painful situations to continue to attend Mass and to pray for an answer that respects the truth, knowing that they have in our Eucharistic Lord a compassionate Saviour.
The respect of truth must extend also to the matter of children. Truth is not respected when couples defy church teaching on contraception. It sets up an inner conflict which undermines faith, and causes mistrust of Christ’s mandate to teach on matters of human sexuality. It undermines one’s own prayer-life and eventually our trust in God.
The wisdom of the world has chosen to ignore, even ridicule Catholic teaching on the matter of openness to children, and has taken a different and tragic path. Artificially separating sex from its possible consequences has led to the separation of sex from marriage itself and has led to the proliferation of casual unions, to the exploitation of young women, to false hopes that sexual activity will lead to love, and to the abandonment of marriage by millions of people around the world.
Faced with this, the Church can either compromise and face irrelevance, or continue to teach Christ’s truth about marriage, life and love, and pray that the world will listen.
Let me tell you some of the things I have heard lately that have shaken me.
Around the western world today there are educators pushing for an entirely new education programme for children. They are looking for support from education departments around the world and from the United Nations. In some countries it is already being trialled.
These teachers want to take over sex education from the parents because they want a complete break from the past. Teachers in one country I know are now telling young people before puberty to become sexually aware and to experiment.
At puberty they are urged to become sexually active as soon as possible or they will grow up with inhibitions, fears of sex and will have psychological problems. They are to be fully instructed in contraception and abortion as ways of continuing to enjoy a full sexual life. They are told to prefer serial unions of choice rather than marriage, and to severely limit the numbers of children, as the world is overpopulated.
They are to be trained to deny gender differences of male and female as these are only social constructs. They are told that homosexuality is a legitimate sexual outlet, and often preferable because children do not come from their sexual activities.
We might bemoan the tragic slide from traditional values, but what is happening today is far worse.
What we condemn is now being taught to children as the way to a happy sexually satisfied life.
This new paganism has arrived and without proper vigilance will spread throughout the world. Church leaders will no doubt protest when this new programme is out in the open. They will need to be very courageous because the work of Satan is so pernicious that they may well face laws, already enacted in some countries, where it is against the law to propagate our own Catholic moral teachings.
The position is very serious, but we know that Christ has already won the victory over Satan and we go forward without backing down.
Only a few years ago one could safely assume that our understanding of marriage was generally accepted.
Not so today. Things have changed radically. Increasingly marriage is being promoted as only one of the many options in human sexual relationships. Recent years have witnessed a sharp rise in cohabitation before marriage. These so-called partnerships are even taking the place of marriage.
Adding to this is the pressure to change the very definition of marriage from a union of a man and a woman to a union of two persons of the same sex. The ideal of Christian marriage is under great threat.
The much publicised romances and brief marital unions of so-called “idols” of screen and television only contribute to the trivialisation of marriage. The availability of easy divorce undermines the strength of commitment that true marriage requires and encourages the view that marriage is no longer a permanent contract.
Consider the children
One must be concerned about the increasing number of children who are born out of marriage and those who grow up in single parent families, often without a father. When the relationship breaks down the father is generally the one who has to live away from the children. While such a situation calls for compassion and understanding, it is not ideal.
Given the stresses on modern marriage many children are sadly caught in the crossfire of hostility between their parents. This often does not cease if the marriage or relationship breaks down.
In the search for happiness in a second marriage or in a ‘partnership’, success is not guaranteed either for the spouses or for the children. The breakdown rate of second and subsequent marriages is higher than for first marriages. Children are the victims of adult behaviour.
Large numbers of children are taken into care by the State today because the family unit can no longer cope. The tragic damage to children who grow up in dysfunctional families affected by violence or drugs has been catalogued many times. Sadly, too, fostering does not always succeed.
Children manifest their distress in forms of mental illness, anti-social behaviour, and too often, tragically, in suicide.
Studies have shown that cohabitation before marriage contributes to the early breakdown of marriage.
This worsening situation is all around us, yet it is rarely the subject of political debate. It calls for urgent action at all levels of society. The family is under threat because the institution of marriage is being undermined. It is not enough to provide assistance to those who suffer from family dysfunction, important as that assistance is. We must also seek to stabilise family life and strengthen marriage itself. This is a responsibility shared by government, the churches and the community. All have a distinct contribution to make.
Unfortunately some people are so ideologically blinded as to applaud this appalling state of affairs as a victory of choice and individual freedom. This is grossly misguided thinking. Marriage has no satisfactory alternatives. History alone clearly shows that.
Research continually finds that happily married people are more contented and healthy, and that children from stable families do better in all indices of education, psychological health and self-image.
The Church must continue to lead and assert the importance of marriage for society and for the spouses and their children. The Church will provide for them nurturing parish communities as a course of strength and affirmation.
Summing it all up
for the happiness and future of the human race. It is a natural institution raised to the dignity of a Sacrament.
signifies the union of Christ and the Church. It is based on a faithful and mutual love, an image of the everlasting love of God for humankind. Marriage, therefore, is for life.
Couples who marry are to be open to new life. Children are the fruit of their love for one another. Even if the parents do not have children their very openness is a desire to share their love.
Although marriage was from the very beginning part of the order of creation, it has become, under Jesus Christ, a vocation and a source of personal salvation. With the assurance of grace both husband and wife are given the strength to renounce their own personal goals for the unity of the marriage. They go forward in joyful hope and trust to fulfil their vocation as married people in the world, to be a sign of the power of self-sacrificing love.
- Marriage is part of God’s plan
Marriages are often under stress through circumstances beyond their control, like unemployment, poverty and accidents.
- Marriage can suffer severe stress
Wrong behaviour or sinfulness can threaten marriage far worse than unforseen disasters. Adultery, selfishness, neglect, violence and the withdrawal of love can fatally damage marriage and family life. Couples are urged to turn to prayer and call on the grace promised to them in the Sacrament. They should seek help from wise people who respect their beliefs. They also have a right to support from their local Christian community. Most important of all, they themselves should renew their commitment to each other, “for better or for worse”.
- Sinfulness damages marriage
Couples are to resist the world’s ways of divorce and re-marriage. However, should the marriage completely collapse, they may turn to the legal processes of the Church where a declaration of invalidity may be given if a serious defect in the marriage is found to have existed from the very beginning.
- Christian couples must resist the way of the world
The ways of the world are not the ways of God. We must hold firm to our beliefs and the high standards that Christ calls us to live by. We must be faithful to the truth. Compromise with the ways of the world will weaken our faith and our witness and draw us into ways of thinking and living that make us indistinguishable from the rest of society.
- Christian Marriage is radically new
We have a distinctive vision of the dignity of every human being and of the sanctity of human life from the womb to the grave, and we have a Christian understanding of human sexuality and marriage that is a unique gift not to be watered down. In every age the Church has had to confront error and remain faithful to the truth, even to the point of martyrdom. This age is no different. We can only face the errors of secularism by living what we believe, courageously and joyfully.
- Christian Marriage upholds a lofty vision of human sexuality
the gift we give to a world of broken relationships and unloved children is the beauty of Christian marriage and the desire to reach out to the victims of broken marriages. Jesus has entrusted to us this pearl of great price. Care for it as it is a rare treasure.
- Christian Marriage – what the world needs now. To repeat -
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